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What is the Surrender Stage of Twin Flame?

The Surrender Stage of the Twin Flame Journey

The twin flame journey is one of the most profound spiritual connections two people can experience. A twin flame is a person’s closest soulmate or mirror soul – someone who shares an incredibly deep bond on a soul level. The twin flame journey involves many stages as the two souls come together and work through lessons, karma, and growth. One of the most critical stages of this journey is the surrender stage.

In this article, we will understand what is the surrender stage of twin flame and how to know if you have reached the twin flame surrender stage.

What Is The Surrender Stage of Twin Flame?

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In the context of twin flames, surrender refers to releasing control and expectations and allowing things to unfold naturally according to divine timing and will. It means letting go of the ego’s desires and attachments. Surrender is about opening oneself up to receive unconditional love from one’s twin flame and the universe. It requires complete trust, vulnerability, and acceptance of what is.

Surrender entails acknowledging that you cannot force your twin flame into union or control the outcome. Instead, you must let go and know that everything will work out as it is divinely meant to. Surrender is about moving from a state of resistance to a state of allowing. It means releasing fears, doubts, and any attempts to manipulate or control.

The Journey to Surrender

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Reaching the surrender stage is a process that involves moving through layers of ego, fear, and control. At first, the ego-self fears surrender because it means giving up what provides it a sense of security and identity. The ego does not want to relinquish its attachment to desires and perceived control. However, the higher self understands that surrender is necessary for growth and aligning fully with one’s soul purpose. Eventually, the twin flame chaser starts giving up and slowly tunes into surrender stage

On the journey towards surrender, a twin flame will often experience an intense push and pull dynamic. There is magnetic attraction combined with the fear of intimacy and abandonment. As wounds and core issues surface, there may also be attempts to deny or resist the connection. Eventually, the pain of holding on becomes greater than the pain of letting go, and surrender naturally occurs.

Also Read: Why Do We Yearn for Our Twin Flame

What Facilitates the Surrender Process?

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There are several key things that can help facilitate the surrender process:

  • Having a regular spiritual practice of meditation, prayer, journaling, or chanting. This supports going inward and aligning with one’s higher self.
  • Letting go of perceptions, assumptions, judgments, blame, and victimhood. Moving into a state of openness and neutrality.
  • Releasing pent-up emotions such as grief, anger, resentment, and shame through therapeutic techniques. Suppressed emotions block surrender.
  • Developing self-love, self-worth, and self-trust. This gives you the strength and footing to let go.
  • Accepting your flaws and humanness. Perfectionism prevents surrender.
  • Trusting in a higher power or divine orchestration. Knowing that there is a bigger picture at play.

What Happens After Surrender?

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Once both twins have reached surrender, the energetic dynamic shifts profoundly. There is significantly less push and pull. Both twins release fears about intimacy, abandonment, and losing their sense of self in the connection. Power struggles soften. There is no longer a need to manipulate outcomes or try to control due to trusting in divine timing.

After surrender, twin flames move towards inner union, harmony, and wholeness. There is a profound sense of peace, contentment, and unconditional love. Painful core wounds may surface to be healed, but the twins now have the understanding to move through these wounds with love and compassion rather than fear and resistance.

While union with one’s twin is never guaranteed, surrender smooths the path significantly. It removes much of the pain, turbulence, separation, and drama often present in the earlier stages of the twin flame journey. Things flow in divine right timing rather than being forced. The twins’ unconditional love and bond strengthen.

Signs You Have Reached the Surrender Stage:

Twin Flame Healing

  • You feel content even if union does not happen right away or as anticipated. You trust in divine timing.
  • You have no urge to control, manipulate, or force your desired outcomes. You allow your twin to have their own free will.
  • You release fears about abandonment, betrayal, loss, and the future. You understand your twin’s flaws but love them unconditionally.
  • You are at peace with where things stand in the connection, even during separation. You do not perceive separation as good or bad.
  • You take responsibility for your own wounds, flaws, and lessons without blaming your twin. You seek to learn rather than judge.
  • You prioritize self-love and your spiritual mission over expectations about your twin. Your happiness is not dependent on them.
  • You are able to be vulnerable and intimate without fear of losing yourself. You set healthy boundaries where needed.
  • You unconditionally forgive your twin and yourself for past mistakes, hurts, and perceptions. You move forward with compassion.

Surrender is a process and there may still be ups and downs, but once you fully reach this stage, everything changes for the better. Maintaining spiritual practices, releasing perceptions, trusting, and embodying unconditional love will all support you on the journey towards surrender and inner union with your twin flame.

 

Yearning for my twin flame – My Twin Flame Story – Part 3

 

yearning for my twin flame

After years of an intense, passionate relationship, things between my twin flame and I took a turn for the worse. I had given up on this connection as a twin flame chaser and I endured a lot of pain and injustice from him that led to us going through a devastating separation period. I was filled with anger and hatred towards him for how deeply he had hurt me.

Even though a part of me would always love him, I knew I had to move on with my life without him in it. I immersed myself in my work, my hobbies, and spending time with friends and family. Focusing on my own goals and dreams helped distract me from the grief for a while. I started to feel happiness and a sense of freedom again.

But then the intense longing and yearning for him came creeping back in. I can’t even explain how desperately I crave his presence, his touch, his smile. I find myself fantasizing about us reuniting all the time, even though I know I shouldn’t. I feel so ashamed that I still have these intense feelings for him after everything.

Why can’t I just forget him and move on fully? Why does it feel like there’s this unbreakable soul bond between us that keeps pulling me back towards him? I wish I could control or diminish how much I pine for him. The rational part of me knows he’s not good for me, but the magnetic pull towards him emotionally is so strong.

For now, I’m trying to be gentle with myself and be patient. I hope in time, these overpowering feelings of longing and desire for my twin flame will fade. It’s a rollercoaster ride I never expected, but I’m doing my best to stay strong. Focusing on self-love, surrounding myself with support, and aligning with my highest good help get me through each day we’re apart. I have faith I’ll move through this challenging chapter of my twin flame journey.

This experience has led me to introspect on these following questions.

Why am I Craving my twin flame?

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I’m craving my twin flame for a few reasons. Firstly, because the connection we share is so profoundly deep and intense. It’s like we are two halves of one soul, so when we’re apart, it feels like part of me is missing. He completes me in a way no one else ever has or could.

The intensity of twin flame connections makes the separation agonizing. I guess I’m craving his energy, his essence. My soul remembers what it felt like to be in union with its mirror image and wants to feel whole again. For now, the longing comes in waves. I’m learning to ride them rather than fighting it. This journey isn’t logical, but I’m slowly making peace with it.

How do I stop yearning for my twin flame?

  • Practice self-care and self-love. Nurture and pamper yourself, stay active and social, and pursue hobbies and passions. When you feel fulfilled in your own life, you’ll be less prone to yearning.
  • Avoid fantasizing or romanticizing the connection. When your mind starts idealizing the past, consciously redirect your thoughts. Stay focused on the present.
  • Limit any contact or interactions that trigger longing. If you need to cut contact for a while, do so. Out of sight can mean out of mind.
  • Keep busy and distracted. Make plans with friends, take on new projects at work, travel if you can. Idle time makes space for pining thoughts.
  • Journal about the realities of the relationship, not just the highlights. This can help you maintain perspective when you’re tempted to long for the past.
  • Take pranic healing for your relationship with your twin flame.

Know More: How Can Pranic Healing Help You?

Why am I suddenly longing for my twin flame?

  • You’re going through a period of emotional vulnerability. When we feel lonely, depressed, or have experienced a loss, it’s common to crave connection with someone significant from our past.
  • You recently saw or interacted with them in some way. Even brief encounters can reactivate intense feelings and trigger longing.
  • You’re approaching an important date or event that holds meaning for your bond. Anniversaries and holidays often amplify feelings.
  • You’re at a transitional phase or turning point in your own life. Times of change subconsciously make us crave support and comfort from a profoundly connected soul.
  • Their energy is telepathically reaching out to yours. Twins can sometimes sense when the other is thinking about them intensely.
  • You’ve recently made significant progress in your own growth. When one twin evolves, the other often longs to catch up and reconnect.
  • It’s just part of the twin flame journey. The intensity comes in waves, so you’re likely experiencing a resurgence that will subside with time.

Does your twin flame feel the longing to be together

They may feel an equally intense longing for you, even if they don’t outwardly express it. The pull between twins can be powerfully mutual. They may suppress their longing more than you do. Some twins are more resistant to the connection and try to ignore or override the urges.

Their longing may come in waves, while yours feels more constant. The intensity tends to ebb and flow for twins.

They could feel the longing, but also have conflicting emotions like fear, doubt or frustration about reunion. The relationship may have been painful.

It’s possible they have moved on and do not long for your connection anymore. But that does not diminish the realness of your feelings.

What happens right before twin flame reunion?

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Intense longing and vivid dreams – Twin flames may intensely miss each other and have vivid dreams of being back together as twin flame reunion nears.

Synchronicities – Increased sightings of repetitive numbers, songs, symbols, and other signs and synchronicities related to each other.

Spiritual awakening – One or both twins experience major spiritual insights, awakening and growth. This propels them into a higher state of consciousness necessary for reunion.

Letting go – The chasing twin surrenders and lets go of perceived control over the connection. This releases expectation and anxiety, allowing reunion to unfold.

Forgiveness – Greater understanding, forgiveness and release of past hurts, wounds and conflicts with one another.

Why do I love my twin flame so much?

There are several reasons why your love for your twin flame may feel so deep and intense:

Soul recognition – There is a profound sense of familiarity, like you have known each other for lifetimes. Twin flames originate from the same soul, so you instantly recognize them.

Mirroring – Twins reflect each other’s deepest selves, light and shadow. Seeing your essence mirrored back can create intense intimacy.

Unconditional love – The love between twins transcends physical connection. You love each other at the soul level, despite flaws or circumstances.

Passion and chemistry – Twin flames share an almost magical chemistry and passion that can be highly addictive and transformative.

Completion – Being with your twin makes you feel a sense of wholeness, like you have found your “other half”. There is completion.

This experience led me to reflect deeply on our connection. The intensity stems from our profound soul bond. When we’re apart, I feel incomplete. The separation is agonizing because I crave his energy and essence. My soul yearns to feel whole again.

I’m learning healthy ways to cope when the longing surfaces. Staying busy, avoiding fantasies of reunion, and nurturing myself help me move forward. This journey brings many ups and downs, but I’m slowly making peace with it.

While the depth of this love can be challenging, I’m grateful to have experienced such a divine connection. Our rare bond will continue to guide our spiritual growth. As I show myself compassion, I trust my twin flame journey will unfold as destined.

Also Read: Twin Flame Chaser Stages That I went through

 

Twin Flame Chaser Stages: Healing and Acceptance

The twin flame chaser stages are many. Initially, the chaser feels the intense pain of being separated from their twin flame. Later, once this painful detox stage is over, they go into a period called the “twin flame surrender stage”.

In this blog, we will understand about the second stage of healing that the twin flame chaser goes through once the initial painful phase is over.

Initial Pain of Separation

In the initial pain of separation, the twin flame chaser feels devastated and yearns for the twin flame. They want this connection to be healed and keep looking for signs from the universe that this will occur.

Read this article to understand more about the first stage of the twin flame chaser in the twin flame separation stages.

What Happens When the Twin Flame Chaser Gives Up

Healing and Acceptance

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Once the twin flame chaser is healed of their initial pain, they go through a period of separation and loneliness. They tap into their inner self and experience a period of self-love.

They go through a period of healing and acceptance and focus on their passions and goals. Their priorities change, and they feel a deep sense of inner peace and stability even when disconnected from their twin flame.

They do not even yearn for their twin flame anymore and sometimes even start to resent them for the pain they were put through. They go through life and become stronger without their twin flame by tapping into the inner reservoirs of self-love.

They start to realize that the relationship with self is the greatest relationship, as whatever life throws at you, this is the relationship you carry with you all along.

Communication During Dreams

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Even though the twin flames are apart in the 3D, they are connected at a soul level in the 5D and go through a period of reckoning and healing. Even though the chaser might be confused sometimes, at a soul level, they are perfectly on their healing path and are doing the right things to heal the collective.

Sometimes, the unresolved fears, anger, and resentment are communicated in dreams with your twin flame runner. Both the runner and chaser are forever connected in 5D, and sometimes the pent-up feelings, thoughts, and resentments are communicated in dreams.

In fact, as a twin flame chaser, you may resonate with this:

“As your dreams start improving with your twin flame in the astral realm, the connection in 3D also starts to improve. You can have it no other way.”

After a time of releasing your pent-up emotions in dreams, you will notice that your dreams start to change. At this time, you might get dreams of romantic or spiritual love with your twin flame.

Even your twin flame runner senses this energy unconsciously, and this will reflect as a change in their behavior in 3D.”

Evolving Beyond the Twin Flame Connection

The twin flame chaser has undergone a lot of healing and transformation within themselves at this stage. They are more focused on self-love and aligning with their newfound love—their goals and passions. Sometimes, they do not even want to reconnect with their twin flame again.

This could happen for two reasons:

Either they have some unresolved issues that require healing before they can reunite with their twin flame.

(OR)

They have evolved to such an extent that they no longer yearn for the previous connection, which may lead to the twin flames being separated temporarily in the 3D.

Connecting With The Divine Feminine

One of the major changes happening in the universe right now is the healing, purging, and transformation that the divine feminine is going through. In fact, most of the experiences of the twin flame chaser are experienced as a divine feminine, whereas the divine masculine could resonates with being a twin flame runner.

However, it is imperative to understand that we are talking here about the collective divine feminine and divine masculine, and each person has both these energies within them. However, at this stage, if you are a twin flame chaser facing separation, you could connect more with the divine feminine energies.

There are a lot of videos online that help you understand this dynamic, and if you are a twin flame chaser or runner, you will resonate with these videos.

This is one of the YouTube channels I completely resonate with on this topic.

Magnetize Yourself

If you are a divine feminine, let me know if you resonated with this article. Share what you would like me to write about next in the comments below.

What Happens When The Twin Flame Chaser Gives Up?

Twin Flame Separation

If you are a twin flame chaser and reading this, you are already aware of the twin flame separation stages and the runner-chaser dynamic. 

When your twin flame starts running because of overwhelming emotions in the relationship, the chaser doesn’t seem to understand what is happening.

The chaser wants to help heal the relationship and keeps pursuing their twin flame to help understand what has gone wrong in their relationship. They utterly believe that they can mend the relationship and hence, keep approaching their twin flame with an intention of sorting things out.

But what they fail to understand is that their twin flame has started running and the best thing to be done in this situation is to give your twin flame some space and stop chasing.

This is a period of intense pain for the chaser who cannot withstand the pain of being away from their twin flame and don’t understand why this is happening.  They can sense that something is wrong with their partner but have no idea of the reason behind it. They may also get into a period of anxiety and depression because of being away from their twin flame.

At this stage, they are also be re-experiencing their childhood  trauma of abandonment and feel lost without their twin flame. This triggers a smaller dark night of the soul (DNOS) for some chasers. If you are experiencing something similar, just have faith that this phase will soon end and you will feel complete and whole again, with or without your twin flame.

If you want perspective on your twin flame journey from a fellow twin flame who has experienced twin flame separation, feel free to reach out here

What Happens When The Twin Flame Stops Chasing

After a long time of chasing their twin flame, the chaser undergoes a spiritual transformation and realizes it is not worth chasing their twin anymore.

This change in dynamic can be triggered by

  • A major life-changing situation
  • They realize there is no point forcing love and begin to surrender
  • They want to work on themselves first before healing the relationship
  • They have pushed the runner too far which makes them do something drastic to hurt them.

In my personal experience, I chased my twin flame for several months, which had pushed my twin flame to abandon me and betray my trust. 

This was a shocking revelation which pushed me to stop chasing and re-introspect on my life.

When the twin flame chaser stops chasing, they start doing work on connecting with themselves and removing their toxic patterns. 

The insane pull to connect with their twin flame is no longer there, and they start introspecting about the worth of being in the relationship.

As the chaser withdraws their energy to focus on their soul lessons, the runner feels the change in energy and is taken aback.

Even though they were running from you, a part of them still expected the chase and they feel abandoned by their partner.

This throws the runner twin flame into another emotional crisis because they miss being chased as before. Also, the runner starts wondering if the twin flame chaser is moving on from the connection.

The Twin Flame Chaser Becomes the New Runner

At this stage, the twin flame chaser becomes the new runner and start working on themselves. The twin flame runner energetically senses this and they can sometimes react with anger and resentment on their twin.

The runner is going through more confusion than before, along with guilt and shame for going through this horrible situation. Hence, as the better evolved partner, being patient with your partner is the best thing you can do at this stage.

The runner feels the void caused by the withdrawal of their partner and they sometimes get into toxic patterns like overeating, drinking too much alcohol, or staying outside a lot of time.

They may feel all alone in the world as their twin has abandoned them and feel that their life is not going anywhere. 

Sometimes, at this stage, the runner may become the new chaser and start chasing, though this is not always the case

Whatever happens, always remember that the runner has many issues to deal with and it is not about you. Have faith that the universe is unfolding the best for both of you to connect with your true selves.

Why Does a Twin Flame Choose To Run

At many stages during the twin flame separation, the runner-chaser dynamic changes and both the twin flames become the runner at some point.

But whoever is running, it is because they believe that all their issues would get sorted once their relationship with their twin flame ends.

But what they don’t realize is that they are running from their own fears and unresolved issues rather than from their twin.

If you are the twin that is currently running, understand that you are running from your trauma and unresolved issues and not from your chaser twin flame.

As your spiritual partner, the chaser twin flame just brings these issues to the core to help you heal and become wholesome once again.

 

How to Do Scripting To Manifest Your Goals

 
Manifestation works on the principle that our brain attracts similar vibrations and experiences in our life based on our perception of reality .
 
Every person has a lot of subconscious beliefs which are shaped by several factors like the country or the family he is born into, his education and social background and the other beliefs like his strengths and weaknesses. Hence common beliefs like
 
“I cant be a millionaire”
“My Body is not very athletic or strong”
“I am not worthy of ____ “
“I am not beautiful or handsome”
“I can only earn _____”
“I cannot give time to my family if I have to grow in my career”
“I tend to get into toxic relationships”
“People tend to cheat me”
“I cannot be an entrepreneur”
 
actually create your reality.
 
These are the limitations and beliefs that we set upon ourselves by our perception of reality.
 
Manifestation or the law of attraction works on the principle that when these beliefs are changed, we can truly manifest anything in our lives.
 
Hence for example , to manifest a goal of buying a house, we need to put ourselves into the shoes of having already bought the house and feel yourself from that vibration.
 
So, an affirmation like
” Its been a month since I moved to this house. I finally bought my dream house. My wife is cooking in her remodeled kitchen. We have a garden setup in front of our house and the neighbors are so friendly . I am more happy and confident now and feel successful after having moved to my new house. I thank the universe for giving me such a wonderful gift” 
 
will actually help you manifest your goal of buying a house.
 
In this way, once you have set yourself into the vibration of having achieved your goal, the universe will actually conspire to manifest that goal for you.
 
Things to Remember when you manifest:
 
  1. You should not have any doubts or think logically about how the goal will manifest.
  2. You believe truly that you have manifested your goal and experience yourself as if you have already manifested your goal
  3. You trust that the universe will take care of manifesting your goals
  4. You can do the affirmations/scripting as soon as you get up or before you sleep as the brain is more relaxed and in a receptive state during this time.
 
 
Manifestation charts
 
Once you have set the goal you need to manifest , , you also need to also take physical action to push you towards your goal.
 
Physical Action + Emotional Trust + Mental Affirmations + Letting Go ->> MANIFESTATION OF GOALS
 
EXAMPLE -> GOAL :Buying a house
 
PHYSICAL
Mental Affirmations
Things that are not in my control
No expectations on this goal
Plan your Finances, Start looking for prospective homes
I am grateful that I bought this house on a good offer
 
I feel grateful for all all the wonderful neighbors and new friends and the new promotion I received after coming to this house.
 
I trust that the finances for investment be worked out in proper time and I get a good offer for my dream house.
Even though this goal does not manifest, “I trust that everything happens for a reason and that I am entitled to something better”.
 
 
In this way, you can draw a chart for your goals and take action on several levels to manifest your goals faster.
 
Scripting
 
Scripting is a systematic journaling method to help you manifest your goals based on the law of attraction. Whatever you are trying to manifest , all you need to do is just start writing your experiences from the position of having reached your goal . This , when done over a period of time can help you manifest your goals. The concept is actually quite simple. Each day you write , you make your perception of your goal stronger, and you will actually attract it into reality. If you truly trust the process and keep at it daily, you will be surprised to see the results. 
 
If you would like to see results for yourself , start today.
 
TAKE ACTION TODAY.
 
All you need is a scripting journal (used only for this purpose) and a pen. Make it a daily ritual. Set some time aside for it . Having a beautiful designer journal/diary would also make you feel good when writing, and this increases your chances to manifest faster.
 
There are many scripting journals available .
 
This one is particularly my favorite scripting journal.
 
This is a 90 day maniscripting journal that has been tailored specially for manifestation and several sections made for you. Just follow through and fill in each section and the journal itself takes you through the process of manifestation.
 

Also order this journal here and get access to a premium course on how to manifest by “Samantha Kozuch” which normally costs $111.

Watch This video by Samantha Kozuch , the creator of “The Maniscripting Journal” on how to manifest anything in life.